Bio

BASICS: Full Name: Jennifer Pearl ......
Nicknames: jen , pearlharbor , white wave , jenny , bird lady, or my friend jeff's fave he calls me bruce lee lol i guess i was kinda intimating in school lol
Birthdate: oct. 22 . 1982
Birthplace: iowa Current Location: Nebraska in hell
Zodiac Sign: libra
Height: 5'3"
Hair Color: Brunette
Eye Color: they change but mostly water blue with lil waves
Shoe Size: 8
Parents: Diana a cna and my step-dad paul trucker
Siblings: half sister Melissa Rae .
Pets: dog annie and a cat tux and a cat that thinks hes a dog Twilight
Best Friends: too many lol
Idols: my grandma and my aunt judy they showed me how to be strong in the worst of times when your effected by cancer i beat it twice they never made it .
Education: elementary and high school both sucked i got outed as a genius in elementary and again in high school teachers suck why cant us smart people just be left alone
FAVORITES: Color: teal
Food: tough one not really sure im not that picky
Cereal: not into cereal
Non-Alcoholic Drink: H2O , other then that not really picky
Alcoholic Drink: i dont drink that often once in a blue moon, but i choose the hard stuff over beer beer tends to get me in trouble
Music Genre: all sorts Bands/Artists: way too many to name plus because some are kinda of famous if i didnt pick them id be in trouble lol i can pick a fave
Instrument: guitar, drums (thanks to my first step-dad when i was like 4), viola , and flute
Movies:lots here
Actor/Actress: never really got into it but one i can say is dolph lundgren(what can i say i like smart guys )
TV Show: csi, charmed, ghost hunters , paranormal state , and doctor who but not really into tv Place to Be: in the middle of the ocean on a boat awwww silence it might change but for now thats home
Season: spring and fall
Saying/Catch Phrase: i say it all the time dont mean for people to actually do it but just dont say it to me cuz i will and i bite hard lol
Word: oh hell
Swear Word: damit, fuck and oh shit
Quote: -you can either live life as though nothing is a miracle or you can live it as if everything is... Albert Einstein Song
Lyrics: ill get back to ya on that.
Boys Names: mark steven and nickolas lynn, Andrew alexander .
Girls Names: Jasmine christina
Car: 1957 chevy bel-air hard top baby blue with white interior and chrome finish with orig. interior lol i know im the only girl who can go into that much detail lol
Book: mist of Avalon,
Poem: no comment .
Magazine: i dont read magazines
Likes: photography, being with family, being with friends, camping, art, swimming and nerd stuff you dont want to know, and books lots of books (my mom was a librarian ) .
Dislikes: fake ppl, liars, cheaters, ppl with huge egos, ppl who pretend to be something they're not
DEEP/PERSONAL QUESTIONS:
1.) Do you think you were well-raised? given the fact you ask most my friends i raised myself and my lil sis, but yes i was raised with a big heart and well mannered as are my boys they dont act like they are 4 and 8
2.) Do you have a secret that you've never told anyone? yes and i will take it to my grave i will only tell the person who is most like me so they can understand
3.) How do you handle stress? ok i have my ways, just ask the wall
4.) How would you spend the last day of your life? on the beach next to the ocean just watching all the beauty in the world
5.) Do you hide things well or do you have a guilty conscious? i hide things very well sometimes a lil too well
6.) If there was true love on one side of the road and a million dollars on the other, which would you choose? - that's a no-brainier ... true love. i refuse to be with guys who have money because of their answers to this question and i hate being treated like a freaking trophy there is more to me then just my body and face hello !
7.) If your parents got divorced, which would you choose to live with? by myself since ive been told if they ever split up its all my fault
8.) If you had to choose, one family member or 5 of your closest friends? my family is too big lol 9.) Do you think you could ever forgive someone who murdered a family member of your's? -yes why be angry and drain myself for something someone else did when i can go on still remembering that person, i would miss the family member but hating someone or vengeance wont bring them back
10.) What is the worst thing you've ever done that your parents dont know about? i cant tell my mom will prob read this and want to know lol
11.) Do you think you know the meaning of true love? yea i just havent found it yet
12.) What's the most important part of a relationship in your opinion? - trust and honest communication.
13.) Are you one to kiss and tell? - nope. those types of things are very special to me, i would never tell anyone what goes on in my personal life.or anyone elses for that matter i like mystery thats what keeps life interesting its not knowing lol
14.) Your most recent ex ... you guys still friends? - yeah we are.im friends with most of my exes i just wont ever date or sleep with them again lol i know im so mean sorry .
15.) If your parents didn't like the person you were dating, would you lose them? lol yeah we wont go there .....
16.) Do you see yourself being with someone you've been with before? - nope!
17.) If your best friend liked your ex, what would you do? that breaks my moral codes but for them hey if thats what makes them happy go for it ..... wanna know ask me THIS OR THAT:
1.) Die in a fire or drown? drown
2.) Eat friend worms or chocolate ants? niether wont eat a creature that lives off crap
3.) Been on the Titanic and lived during the Holocaust? - titanic, cuz Hitler would have killed me just cuz id try to kick his ass lol
4.) Which would you choose ... your boyfriend or your best friend? - best friend. doesn't matter what's going on ... i would choose my best friend everytime. doesnt matter if i've been with the guy for years, friends are always there when you need them. boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever. ppl need to remember that!
5.) Be ditched or live with ditching someone? - being ditched is wrong way to treat anyone remember, i can't take hurting ppl ... so if i had to live with that, it'd suck.
6.) Kids then marriage ... or marriage than kids? dumb question
7.) Being blind or deaf? i can deal with either partly cuz I'm almost blind anyway
8.) Live in a small apartment with 5 people or in a huge house by yourself that you thought was haunted? - small apartment with 5 ppl. i hate feeling alone
9.) Date someone with a job or a car? - either don't care as long as they can be a decent human being
RANDOM:
1.)Do you kick it with the same people always or new people? -anyone really
2.) How many piercings do you have? 4
3.) Tattoos? 6
4.) What is your greatest accomplishment? beating cancer twice, and going through things id never want anyone to go through and still be me .but stronger .
5.) Do you see yourself as a good person? - yes i do. i try
6.) Do you think best friends can be replaced? - no way!!!!!
7.) Name people that you can tell anything to. -nickolas birdsley , mark fleming and a few others like Andre Lalonde , Emily Lalonde , liz darbyshire , andrew goldstraw ,and tereza , josh , connie ,oh yeah and some of my Twitter friends too lol luv ya guys lmao
8.) Are you the type that would rather stay at home with people over or stay at other people's houses? - both. i love going over to other ppl's houses ... but i also love playing hostess. it doesn't really matter as long as everyone has fun
9.) Have you ever wanted to watch a scary movie with someone just to have an excuse to be close with them? - of course!!! But sometimes that doesn't always work lol i tend to be critical of scary movies i was born a week before Halloween so im a horror movie queen lol
10.) Is your family the eat dinner at the table type ... or the get your food and eat whereever you want type? -my boys were taught to eat meals as a family
11.) Have you ever hooked up with one of your ex's best friends? thats a big moral rule breaker for me
MORE RANDOMS:
1.) Are you religious? no comment
2.) Are you single or taken? - lol very much taken
3.) How many people have you had sex with? cant tell yea that but i have all their names written down, yes i know sad huh.
4.) What do you do in your free time? play with my kids, write , read and listen to music .
5.) Have you ever been in love? yea but never had it returned the way i want it to be
6.) What is your definition of love? - that's probably the hardest word to describe. its different for everyone ... for me its the feeling that nothing can hurt me ever again when im in his arms. that no matter what has happened or what i've had to go through in my past or what the future holds, that everything is going to get better from here on out cause he's always going to be there to catch me when i fall ... help me pick up the pieces of myself that i lost . and being able to be yourself without worry that the other not wanting you to change if you better yourself with them great but if not they love you the way you are .
7.) Have you ever cheated? yes sadly really im always getting cheated on goes against my moral rules hey give me a break i got a family full of truckers lol i was raised not to cheat but it has happened no one is perfect
8.) What are your thoughts on premarital sex? depends on who im speaking to
9.) Have you ever been pregnant or gotten someone pregnant? yea lots of times two of those are my boys
10.) have="" you="" got="" any="" diseases?=""> nope had cancer but fresh out of that lol
11.) Have you ever been to the ER? yea a lot lol
12.) Tell your honest opinion about your bf/gf or the person you like? he is absolutely amazing !
13.) What does your bf/gf or the person you like think about you? no clue im the invisible person over here
14.) If you could change one thing about the person you like, what would it be? -no comment
15.) Do you live with anyone? -yes
16.) Are you in school? no
17.) What are your feelings on underage drinking and partying? never seen the point to that not even in high school
18.) If you were asked to get married right now, would you? id say no two bad ones dont make a right, plus i like saying no to that lol
19.) Have you ever been engaged? - yes. and it was stupid.all four times, the funny part is i said no like a 12 times each to all of them lol i dont like the word yes ha ha ha .
20.) Do you want to get married and have kids? not in a big rush got two boys whom i love to death
21.) What is one thing you like doing with the opposite sex? not quite sure i should let my kinky ways be known lol
22.) What do you hate about the opposite sex? - its not all of them ... but i hate men that use women as sex toys. we're human beings, don't just use us and then leave us.i hate being a trophy dammit !!!!!
23.) Who do you hate? - oh must not go there may turn homicidal
24.) Where do you want to live? - not sure .
25.) What do you want as a career? a marine biologist, or other things
26.) What is your dream? - to always be happy .. and to be me.
27.) What would you do if you were to die tomorrow? -tell someone how i feel and that I have had the dreams to
28.) Why do you hate life? - it sucks sometimes.
29.) Why do you love life? - so many reasons
30.) What is your life motto? -you can either live life as though nothing is a miracle or you can live it as if everything is... Albert Einstein
31.) What about you do you wish you could change? to be visible
32.) If you could bring back anyone, who would it be? my grandma, and the person William Mcalpine was maybe if he pulls his head out of the blonde ass he will realize what he's become
33.) Have you ever thought about suicide? -yes been in the loony bin for it twice but what's the point in that ive had cancer and been in a bad car accident lost the only man ive ever fully trusted and i can just see death "going hell no i aint taken her !!!" lol
34.) Ever been depressed? - yes.
35.) What do you do when you're having a hard time? close my eyes and remember dreams
36.) Who do you want to see right now? -my daddy
37.) What scares you the most? not enjoying this life and being alone
38.) What do you wish you knew? - so many questions so little space lol
39.) Are you confused? - all the time.
40.) When was the last time you cried? no comment
41.) Do you cry a lot?- no cuz then i have a panic attack lol i cant cry or my throat closes up.
42.) Do you love anyone? - yes , my kids , my family and my friends.
43.) What was the best moment in your life? if i told ya id have to kill yeah lol ......
44.) Are you corny? - i can be. but always am lol

My moral rules are as follows
1) Never date a guy with money ever again lol (unless he has the balls to be a man about it and not treat me like a fucking toy! or tries to buy me shit to make me happy. News flash assholes material shit doesnt make me happy ever oh yea and i hate shopping !)
2) Never date my guy friends ---- every rule has exceptions (i have broken that rule a few times had a kid with one and all hell broke out he was no longer a friend but a obsessed asshole )
3) Never date my friends brothers - (its just wrong lol and if they are ur best friend its worse cuz then it feels like ur dating a family member and ya this isnt Kentucky )
4)Never sleep with any of the above lol
5) Never let people know how smart you really are ( i tend to scare away a lot of dates that way lol i use large words they cant understand then they feel stupid when i have to explain it.
6) Never sleep with a guy on the first date and no more one night stands ( made the mistake of doing to a guy what they normally do to women and ya didn tgo so well lol he called me a 3 am for 2 months asking me to see me again . i even told him it was a one night thing and he wouldnt let it go till i changed my phone # on his ass lmao )
7) Stop attacking psychos ( this one im still working on lol )